March 2013
8 posts
“I’ve made so many dumb decisions during my life it’s embarrassing....”
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“For me when a relationship runs its course and ends, it’s sad, but...”
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“If you’re staying with someone because they have “potential”,...”
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“Know what you want or you’ll get what you get”
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“What you attract is a direct reflection of your self esteem”
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“No one is worth the price of your self esteem”
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“If he isn’t treating you like a soul mate, he isn’t one.”
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“Letting someone go means having the space to let someone else near.”
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September 2011
9 posts
Anonymous asked: I'm in love with my Husbands cousin and he is in love with me. This has been going on for 15 yrs. on and off and we try to keep away from each other. We have gone years without speaking to each other and yet we think about each other everyday. When we can't get each other out of our minds we reach out to make sure the other is still there. It is heartbreaking; I don't know what to...
Anonymous asked: My ex broke up with me recently because I am ready to move on to the next step, moving in together, and he isnt and needs time to think if he is ready to move on with our relationship. We have been 2gether for 2 years and have a child yet doesnt want to commit to me? He also HATES the idea of marriage and thinks once you move in together the woman thinks marriage must happen , which is NOT true....
Anonymous asked: Kim, I am new to dating after being married 25 years. Online dating is no fun! Is it just me or do others hate the fact you can go back online after a date and see your date shopping/ chatting for others? Isn't it sad that because of the easy access to 100's of women/men online , some choose to keep shopping for someone better?? Maybe it is my own insecurities, but how can one get a...
noelrose13 asked: Kim, I need some advice. I have a horrible habit of dating all my male friends, and when it doesn't work out we always lose our friendship. All my friends are trying to get me to go out with this really nice guy I am friends with, but I don't want to lose our good friendship either. I am also not sure if it is even worth it, because I dont know if he is into me or not.
Anonymous asked: Ok, so here\'s the story, I like this girl, lets call her Ann. I have a friend ( Guy ), lets call him Bob. I Like Ann, a lot, and my friend Bob knows This. Me and ann are close to going out. We call each other every night, say i love you to each other ect. Bob and Ann used to go out, and now, ann tells me that bob text\'s her saying stuff like i miss you, you are perfect for me ECT....
milehighclub1 asked: I have had a huge crush on this guy in my media lit class, and homecoming is coming up pretty fast. How do you propose I go about asking him to homecoming without scaring him away?
Anonymous asked: help kim! I love my fiance, we got engaged a month ago. Only now I feel I am settling. I found he has usernames like RockHard and HungStud on multiple adult chat sites but says he just had to create those names to get access to videos of local women doing strip teases. He's never asked for this from me! AND I found a video of him shirtless saying "Hey yall, wanna add me?" from 4...
Anonymous asked: Hey Kim, I was wondering if you could give me some advice about my now ex boyfriend. He broke up with me in early Aug when our son was 1 month old and told me he needed to "think" if he wanted to be with me or not. He still wants me to come over to his house with the baby and still acts like we are boyfriend and girlfriend, just never says I love you anymore. He even get's jealous...
Anonymous asked: hey kim. i was wondering what to do if you like a guy but they hate your guts and would do a happy dance if you died?
August 2011
3 posts
Anonymous asked: Kim,
I have a dilemma, am an avid listener of your show, and always find myself yelling at you guys!
So here is my dilemma…
I am 24 years old I have been successfully running my own companies for 5 years now. I have always have a can do attitude and an it had to be done two days ago since of urgency.
I have a current boyfriend that I can say that we had...
I have a dilemma, am an avid listener of your show, and always find myself yelling at you guys!
So here is my dilemma…
I am 24 years old I have been successfully running my own companies for 5 years now. I have always have a can do attitude and an it had to be done two days ago since of urgency.
I have a current boyfriend that I can say that we had...
Anonymous asked: I have a co-worker I don't know how to handle. She is self-proclaimed bi-polar and admittedly does not take her meds like she should. She talks about how she drinks and shouldn't and forgets her meds. She dresses really inappropriately sometimes and displays odd and crazy behavior at times. She texts the boss about anything and everything and isn't a team player. She is rude...
Anonymous asked: I've been married 11 years to a guy who doesn't "get" me. We married 7 months after we met, and I feel like he misrepresented himself during that time. That, and I was just so stupid rushing into the marriage without knowing him as well as I should have. We have 3 kids, and while life hasn't been terrible the whole time, it has not been fun. He has criticized almost...
June 2011
11 posts
Anonymous asked: Hey I broke up with my boyfriend because my friend said he was flirting with her! So, I broke up with him and my friend asked me why! I said , "because you said he was flirting with you!"
Then she said, "no,he was never flirting with me!" I was confused, so I avoided both of them for a few days till I could get the whole mess figured out. A few days later my other...
Then she said, "no,he was never flirting with me!" I was confused, so I avoided both of them for a few days till I could get the whole mess figured out. A few days later my other...
Anonymous asked: Is 'fasting' healthy? What is the best way to go about doing a mind and body cleanse?
Anonymous asked: If you are trying to get this girl that you have like for about a month or so to date you, what is the best thing to do? Thank you
Anonymous asked: Kim, weird question...I've always been discusted with people who date their cousins or close family. I recently, after about a decade and a half got to know my cousin and have recently realized, I love him. Is it really that wrong? What should I do? I'm really not that ok with it. help!
Anonymous asked: Hello Kim! I have been at the same job, a call center, for about 8 years. The last 6 months have been hell. Different manager. She and I have gone to HR over her threatening to walk me out the door 'cause I am not selling above 100% goals. Or, she will come up to my desk and belittle me about how I fill out a tracker for calls wrong. Its a piece of paper for crying out loud!!!! And she even...
Anonymous asked: alright kim, there's this guy who has been around for a while. I'm 20 now and I've known him since I was 15 (he's 24) and we've always been "good friends" we talk on the phone for hours.. he gives me great advice and we click on just about any level two people can click on. We've kinda tossed around the idea of dating a few times and I backed out every time....
Anonymous asked: Hi, I'm TC, been married for almost 10 years. This question is sex related. How do most women feel about oral sex? I enjoy it when I get it, which is not often...and I have let my wife know that it's something that I enjoy. I even go down on her because I know she enjoys it. How would you suggest I go about getting her to perform it more often? Or do women even enjoy doing it? ...
Anonymous asked: This is so embarrassing but I just really need to know why this happens but my boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years and when we have sexual intercourse he NEVER seems to have an orgasim...I know that it's not me because I've never had a problem like this with previous boyfriends, I've tried so hard to make our sex life interesting and fun but it just doesnt seem...
Anonymous asked: Kim, my Boyfriend and me are about 4 years apart and I'm 15 and he's 18 i really love him but everyone thinks he is a pedophile should i keep calm and keep my head or should i tell people off. I think people don't like it mainly because we both are gay how should i deal with this?
Anonymous asked: I'm 18 years old, and I'm about to graduate. Underclassmen idolize me, and adults respect me. I'm extremely confident and outgoing when it comes to taking action, but I'm terrible at talking. I'm way too to the point and mostly talk about practical things, so I have almost no conversational skills whatsoever, which means the people i want to hang with and the girls I have...
Anonymous asked: I went out with this guy only twice, and since it was summer he told me we were only casual. I said that just hanging out was fine, but I didn't want him to be intimate with other girls. He totally agreed. But now it has been a month since I have hung out with him and things are different. He texts me a lot, but it isn't his cute ways anymore. Then, suddenly the other night he asked...
April 2011
1 post
Anonymous asked: hi kim, im writing because i would like your advice on something.
i was dating a guy for a couple of months and things just didnt work out, three months later i come to the surprise that my best friend is suddenly going out with him. i feel betrayed and hurt by my friend, and i dont know if i should forget about our friendship, or try to get along with the two of them.
i dont like...
i was dating a guy for a couple of months and things just didnt work out, three months later i come to the surprise that my best friend is suddenly going out with him. i feel betrayed and hurt by my friend, and i dont know if i should forget about our friendship, or try to get along with the two of them.
i dont like...
March 2011
46 posts
Anonymous asked: I fell for my younger neighbor (27 I'm 44). We had a little fling that ended with me pregnant. He said the best thing would be to 'get rid of it" as he did not want to be a dad. I reluctantly agreed (and have regretted it ever since). Found out he lied about not being with his girlfriend, they never broke up. I am having a really hard time with the break up, as i fell really...
Anonymous asked: Honestly....are you ever unsure of yourself? What your doing in life?
Anonymous asked: I am in my middle 20's and have only been out with one guy a few times and that was several years ago. Where do you meet decent guys at? I only seem to attract much older men or creeps! Some have even been married and tried hitting on me!! I've let my weight hold me back all these years in fear of being let down and hurt but I have such a sweet personality. Where do I start??
smalladjustment asked: Sigh....I left my gf over 2 months ago. Now Im missing her like crazy. Ive had other gf's but let them go a lot easier. But this one is different. I love her. The only problem is withing that 2 months apart she is back with the ex that she once referred to as a monster/stalker. I know I need to move on but how can I get this crazy feeling out of me?
Anonymous asked: Hello, my name is Amanda. I'm twenty years old and a single mom of a two year old and I've been seeing this guy named Micheal. He's twenty two, and we've been pretty serious for about three months now. He's wonderful with my son and wants to be a father as well. But I'm having some issues with his sister. The relationship is pretty much perfect except for her. He...
Anonymous asked: Hi Kim,
I'm 21, for some reason I seem to attract attention from much older men, almost exclusively. There have been incidents with a family friends husband (their granddaughter is about my age) and one of my co-counselors at a summer church camp (he used to be one of my counselors when I was in high school and his son was one of the campers at the camp this summer).
Recently I...
I'm 21, for some reason I seem to attract attention from much older men, almost exclusively. There have been incidents with a family friends husband (their granddaughter is about my age) and one of my co-counselors at a summer church camp (he used to be one of my counselors when I was in high school and his son was one of the campers at the camp this summer).
Recently I...
happieheart asked: there's this guy in my office (i won't call him a friend - an acquaintance i suppose) i see him almost everyday, i have the hugest crush on him, but he's so rude and crass that i can't even figure out why i like him, but i do, and it crushes me every time he comes around to chat with people around me and leaves without saying a single nice word to me. do i act on this? wait...
Anonymous asked: I have a friend and they seem to commit their entire lives to their boyfriend, her entire facebook is filled with status's like "I can't wait til ____ gets home" "I miss my boyfriend" "I love my boyfriend" ...is it wrong to get super annoyed by this, what do you think of women like this?
Anonymous asked: I have a friend and she got married after being with her boyfriend for less than five months, then moved in with him, and now is trying to have a baby after only 3 months of being married. And if she did he wouldn't even be there for the pregnancy or birth cause he is going to be gone for a year due to being int he military. I want to be happy for her but I think its ridiculous to move that...
Anonymous asked: Kim I need you help, my boyfriend of 3 years are having problems and now he wants to end things. I messed things up. I held him too close and I didn't want him to go out with his friends because I was so scared of losing him and now I did. I can't stop calling and texting him begging him to come back. Please help.. how do I fix this :(
Anonymous asked: mike here, i am 55 and have been single all my life i have had a few girlfriends but. nothing lasting.. i just had a heart attact 1 year ago.. doing good now and been doing a few new things to change my life. am a motor bike rider now.. i feel like is it me or are there others out there... i dont have kids or a family.. like most people .. it does make it hard to make friends because thse...
Anonymous asked: Hi I need advise I want to ask this girl out but I get very nervous around her. We are good friends. But when I'm about to ask her I stop. I need advise.
Anonymous asked: I have been on and off with a friend from college for two years now. When we began moving from friends to "Friends With Benefits" he had just broken it up with his girlfriend. This school year he was dating the same girlfriend from before, that got back together over the summer. I tried for awhile to keep our friendship strictly a friendship with no sexual relations once I knew he was...
Anonymous asked: hi kim,
so ive been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years and just about a month ago, he told me that he doesnt make plans with me for the future because he doesnt want to be disapointed, this really hurt me and i cant really seem to get over it. ive talked to him about it, but he told me he was sorry for sayig it, but it was true. it makes me feel like a fool because i had...
so ive been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years and just about a month ago, he told me that he doesnt make plans with me for the future because he doesnt want to be disapointed, this really hurt me and i cant really seem to get over it. ive talked to him about it, but he told me he was sorry for sayig it, but it was true. it makes me feel like a fool because i had...
Anonymous asked: I'm 21 and I've gotten into a few grad schools for the next year, two of which I'm considering. One is about an hour away from my boyfriend of four and a half years, and objectively speaking, a great and highly ranked program. The other is another highly ranked program that's a better fit for me, but it's about 5 hours away from my boyfriend. He is super supportive and...
Anonymous asked: Hi Kim...I suppose this is where I will most definitely get an answer :) I have tried so many things and never got a response..so here goes. I have a fiance of 8 years and we have a 5 year old together. We've lived together for over 7 years. He is 25 and I am 27. A couple of months ago one of my ex.best girlfriends told me that he had been calling her for several months and saying things like...
Anonymous asked: I just got out of a 2 yr relationship, he is already bragging about hot girls online and how he flirts with them. It has only been a month since we split.
And we were living together..
How would you respond to this?
And how much time should it truly take to get over a 2 year relationship?
And we were living together..
How would you respond to this?
And how much time should it truly take to get over a 2 year relationship?
Anonymous asked: I have been engaged to my fiance for 6 months. Our wedding is, and has been, set. It is less than four months away. Last night while checking my Facebook updates, my best friend, a bridesmaid to my own wedding, uploaded a picture of her hand with a diamond on her ring finger, along with a quote of, "we're engaged." I am quite upset, yet everyone tells me there is no reason to be....
